Transgender Woman,
by
Rhiannon O'Donnabhain says she spent
more than $25,000 on sex-reassignment surgery in 2001, and claimed a $5,000
deduction she says she is entitled to. But the
All Things Considered,
Rhiannon O'Donnabhain
says she spent more than $25,000 on sex-reassignment surgery in 2001, and
claimed a $5,000 deduction she was entitled to. But the
Changing a Troubled Life
In the trial that began in July, O'Donnabhain,
64, described a lifetime of suffering from Gender Identity Disorder, or
She described growing up as a young boy, in a conservative, Catholic family and trying to suppress the feelings. She played with boys, worked in construction, married a woman and fathered three children. But O'Donnabhain says she grew increasingly tormented.
"It was horrible. Absolutely horrible. I was thinking suicide was probably the only way out of this," she said.
Eventually, O'Donnabhain started therapy and began the transition to life as a female. She changed her name, started dressing like a woman and took feminizing hormones to change her body. But O'Donnabhain says it wasn't enough. "I was a male with breasts. I looked like a freak."
In 2001, O'Donnabhain underwent sex-change surgery. She had her male genitals removed and received every procedure doctors provided to give her a female body — from vaginal reconstruction to breast augmentation. For the first time in her life, O'Donnabhain says she felt at peace.
"I'm just so glad I did this," she said.
Battling the
While O'Donnabhain believes her
sex-change operation literally saved her life, the
"The
But O'Donnabhain accused the
"It's really astonishing that the
But the
"I think the problem doesn't lie in their genitals, it
lies in their mind, and we should be working on their mind," says Paul
McHugh, a professor of psychiatry at
But O'Donnabhain points out that
even the therapy she sought for her
A Growing Number of Cases
O'Donnabhain's case is the latest in a growing number of legal tangles over transgender rights. Courts around the nation are grappling with a slew of lawsuits — from prisoners demanding sex-change hormones as part of their medical care and kindergarteners asking to be called "she" instead of "he," to transsexuals seeking to marry or use the public restroom of their new gender.
"There has been an incredible amount of litigation,
but the law is all over the place," said Arthur Leonard, a professor at
Ultimately, the transgender community faces an irony that
is not lost on O'Donnabhain. That is, the fight to be
legally accepted and accommodated by the
"It's a Catch-22," O'Donnabhain said. "I have to accept the stigma of being labeled as having a disorder [or] a mental condition … in order to get benefits. I haven't liked this diagnosis from the very beginning. But I've got to play the game."